When friendship becomes all that you need and have

It may take years to build friendships but it only takes one minute for a friendship to turn sour. Why? Because we take a lot of things for granted. I believe familiarity should bring respect and not contempt but there are others who don’t think like me. These people take for granted the gift of friends, because of certain bitter experiences. They choose to forget those the times when life made a lot of sense, when it was all rosy. They get to a point where they feel they do not need friends.

No matter how you see it, friendship is an important part of everyday life. A man who has a friend has all the wealth he needs. A good friend is worth more than gold. There are a lot of great people walking on this earth’s surface. A lot of gifted, passionate, stubborn and sometimes annoying yet resourceful individuals are everywhere. They are not all out there, they are not across the borders, you don’t even have to look too far, look around you and when you spot them, sincerely appreciate and hold on to them.

People are Different

Every friend, acquaintance, resourceful person, connection that you encounter in life is uniquely different. You cannot expect everyone in your network to like the same things you like, to do what you do, go where you go, think like you. Make room and give allowances for dissenting views. It doesn’t always have to end in war and it certainly doesn’t always have to be the end of a friendship. There is something great inside everyone of us.

Greatness cannot fit into a box neither can it be silenced. If you have the capacity to amass such connection;to build such networks,then appreciate what you’ve got. Some, if not all of these people, will end up ushering you into more greatness.

Friendship is sacred.

It should be earned and cherished.

Money will change hands. Many will be ruined but there will come a time in a man’s life when loyalty of a few good friends is the only currency he needs. In case you are still wondering who needs friends, well, I have a question for you- who doesn’t?


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Edikan Kinza


When friendship becomes all that you need and have

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